Intimacy Essentials

It depends on what you're using it for. Water-based lube is the most versatile — it's safe with all toy materials and condoms, easy to clean, and gentle on sensitive skin. Silicone-based lube lasts longer and is great for shower play, but it can degrade silicone toys. Avoid oil-based lubes with latex condoms, as they can cause breakage. If you have sensitivities, look for lubes that are pH-balanced, glycerin-free, and paraben-free.

Coconut oil works for some people as a natural lubricant, but it has limitations. It's not compatible with latex condoms (it weakens them), it can disrupt vaginal pH in some individuals leading to infections, and it's not suitable for use with silicone toys. If you want a natural option, a water-based lube with minimal ingredients is usually a safer choice for most situations.

There's no fixed expiration date, but watch for signs of wear: discoloration, sticky or tacky surfaces, cracks, weakening motors, or a persistent odor after cleaning. High-quality silicone and steel toys can last years with proper care. Lower-quality materials like TPE or jelly rubber degrade faster and should be replaced sooner. If a toy looks or feels different than when you bought it, it's time for a new one.

Wash with warm water and mild, unscented soap after every use. For a deeper clean, non-motorized silicone toys can be boiled for 3–5 minutes or placed on the top rack of a dishwasher (no detergent). For motorized toys, stick to soap and water or a dedicated toy cleaner — never submerge the charging port. Dry completely before storing in a clean pouch.